Last week I wrote about connecting with your husband. It may not have been the perfect post but that's ok.
This week I wanted to talk about Spending a Little Time On Him. I'm not sure about you but lately I've been alot more "me, me, me, me, and oh yeah, ME". So spending time on my husband was hard! It's not that I didn't want to or that I couldn't, just that I had to make an effort.
Arnold has been so sweet since our weekend away. He even popped a card in the mail about 4 days after we got home. It told me how thankful he was that I went away with him for the weekend and how much fun he had getting to know me.
Now all at once ladies "awwwwwww" That's right. So how do I return the love to him? How do I spend some time on him?
I got the chance on Friday (Jan 25th). Arnold had done me a favour by taking Kyler to the community centre and was late leaving for work. It meant he was going to be late getting home as well.
Then when he got to work he had a conference text with Germany and some "holy crap" projects to work on, a few top priorities things that had to be done and just way too much. I was asked "What'd I do this morning to deserve a mess when I got to work?" Talk about heartbreak. How do you tell your husband, "nothing, it's all everyone else's fault". Instead my response was "Nothing sweety. It's just hard sometimes. Hopefully moving things around with release dates and stuff will be easier from now on. I'm praying for you, love. Sometimes days are just hard."
"I'm praying for you" I"m praying for him. And right then and there I was praying for him. I was praying his day would get better, his mind would be a bit more at ease and he would be able to relax.
I started a random search online for things to do for your husband. I was reading the ideas and came up with one. Have a nice night for your husband and then it came to me...
I made my husband an "evite". It emailed to him with an invitation to a "Happy Hour" party.
Here's what it said below:
Message from Host